THE ART OF SUCCESSFUL LIVING
THE ART OF SUCCESSFUL LIVING
The only thing that will save the world is collaboration.
Why DUONIKA? In the beginning the exercises for two persons were designed and after that I described and systematized the theory. The name comes from the fact that the main ritual for awakening the "Spirit" of collaboration is for two persons - i.e. they form a duo. After that I chose a contemporary suffix and thus originated DUONIKA.Bertrand Russell.
As the main principle of the
system concerns collaboration and not struggle, and the word strategy,
even used figuratively, has a notion of military activities, defeating
the enemy, etc., I decided that it would be reasonable to coin a new relevant
concept.
Stratema means art and
science, complex of conceptions and principles for successful living, ability
to perform creative acts with the purpose to increase the quality of living.
It is quite possible
our own living to turn into a kind of art, because there is a creative
act present. We are in the capacity to create and mold our own life. And
the creative act by itself brings delight and satisfaction.
And thus DUONIKA - the
winning stratema of living is systematized in the following way:
· Theory: main conception and eight basic
principles
· Practice: exercises with a partner and/or
application of the principles
· Awakening and development of the spirit
of collaboration
· Guaranteed success and gain in:
- Self-knowledge, self-perfection and spiritual
development
- Recovery and protection of the body
- Any desired profession, creation, making money
- Relations with people, love
As a result: prosperous and happy life here and
now!
It is an original system of logically stated psychological
and philosophical principles, selected and oriented to lead to achievement of
a more successful, more prosperous and happier life, here and now. Composed
of two main parts - theoretical and practical. In the theoretical part
the basic sources of the human drama are discussed. The themes of election
(predestination), destiny, karma, inferiority complex, goal of life, the
damages of the mass culture - the more dangerous delusions, dogmas and
prejudices, the main conception and eight powerful principles for advantageous
living.
The practical part contains
intellectual and physical exercises that are practiced with a partner.
According to the main
principle of DUONIKA the world and everything in it is made from the play
of three essences - energy, information and creativeness. Just for convenience
we use a fourth concept - matter. Man is a material focus of energy, information
and creativeness.
Typical for the creative
power is that it makes from the available - what is possible. It organizes
the energy, following certain information, into atoms, molecules, cells
and organisms. It collects, forms, calls into being, creates.
At the level of a human
being the creative power is represented as collaboration, creativeness
and love. Consequently, when we cooperate with someone, create or love,
we give thorough expression of the creative power in our life. World is
woven of varied things. Some of them are different from others to the extent
of opposition, but this does not mean contradiction. World is a unity and
collaboration of divergencies and not struggle of opposites! We, as we
are, represent a result of the cooperation of the organs in our organisms,
and the organs themselves demonstrate the collaboration of a vast number
of cells. If no such cooperation existed we simply would not exist.
DUONIKA is interested
only in what unites people for mutual happiness and advantage, but not
in what separates them.
Everyone knows by experience
that in his relations with other people there are areas, where communication
goes smoothly and leaves a feeling of content and joy in both persons..
These areas are called collaboration zones (CZ). In them, you and your
partner, feel best and most comfortable. Relation of any kind, when you
simultaneously give and receive, experience positive emotions, feel stimulated
or serene, you progress and are in good mood, etc., is achieved only in
the collaboration zones. They may increase in number and also change its
quality in one and the same contact between two persons. This is so, because
everything is dynamic and changes are possible at any time. The goal is,
however, to concentrate the attention only and exclusively on the CZ. In
them, and only there, the most perfect relationship between both people
and man and world is established. Thanks to the correct approach and mental
disposition everyone will find the CZ, which is always possible even for
absolute antipodes. Only by this means balance and harmony will be achieved
in this dynamic world. Thus the most winning stratema of living is established
and man, not only will survive easily, but will be happy and prosperous
as well.
We have to start changing
and improving our life from somewhere. DUONIKA is a good and exquisite
beginning.
I don’t say why is better,
but by what is different. Everyone will estimate if it is good for him.
This is the point!
DUONIKA employs the
understanding, intellect, conscience and body. Maybe we shall also work
at Alfa level, but for sure we shall work at Beta level as we shall consciously
seek the condition of total awakening. Alfa level, as some of you already
know, is that brain fluctuation that is on the borderline between waking
and sleeping state. The WSL works in the direction to total awakening,
but we also use Alfa level, because the achieved waking state spreads in
all directions. In this sense the WSL differs from the "SILVA" method and
other systems that operate in Alfa level, but in no way opposes to them.
I, myself, am a keen disciple of the "SILVA" method and regularly apply
it. It helped me a lot and I recommend it to you too. Yet, now we are discussing
something more different - a way for maximal awakening and holding personal
responsibility. For that reason I very often mention that DUONIKA is a
technique for awakening the spirit of collaboration.
We shall employ relaxation
and meditation too. During that time we shall take rest of the thinking
and reduce the impulses to the brain, coming from the tensioned before
that muscles. After the meditation the brain will possess more of its capacity
to think properly and creatively. Thus we shall see and realize the broad
domain: from the lack of thoughts, deep relaxation, near to sleep state
to the total awakening of the mind, intellect and conscience. And something
more - you will learn to let love in your life and enjoy it. If you program
yourselves successfully in Alfa level, you will change the harmful habits
and bring into the sub-conscience new and useful information structures.
Sometimes we shall apply this method, but the same effect may be achieved
if you COGNIZE. This means if you well understand and after that realize
the truth or the necessary information. The simple act of understanding
and cognizance will immediately change you. Consequently, we have two ways
to achieve one and the same goal - the "SILVA" method and DUONIKA. With
the first one we make the constructive changes in and with ourselves through
Alfa level, while the second one employs the highest level of awakening.
Nothing can prevent you from trying both methods as I did it myself. Nevertheless,
I would recommend you to start with DUONIKA. After that I can guarantee
fast and effective entering and use of the "SILVA" method.
In both methods one
and the same question exists with slight differences. For the "SILVA" method
the most frequently asked question is: "How should I know I have reached
Alfa level and that my programming has been successful?"
With DUONIKA the question
is: "How should I know that I have realized the truth, which will transform
me and work for me?"
Both questions have
similar answers:
For the first one the
answer is: Meditate regularly and more and more easily you will reach Alfa
level, and when the changes start to come in your life you will understand
that your programming has been successful. You have to await them. Till
then just meditate.
The answer of the second
question is: Strive to continuously understand and realize and when you
notice the constructive changes in yourself, your behaviour and way of
thinking and feeling, then you have achieved the level of awakening and
have escaped from the gravitational attraction of the magic reality, which
has governed you up to now.
Here come some examples.
If you touch a hot stove and get burned you will immediately understand
that you should not touch it with bare hand. If you understand and recognize
that, then in the future you will never touch hot stove. It won’t be necessary
to program yourself in Alfa level. If you realize that you smoke by habit,
if you only comprehend that you are ruled by an old boring habit, you will
be easily and naturally give up smoking. You have awakened and are no more
in the power of this habit. Just then you can understand why you began
smoking. Maybe in this way you have irrationally satisfied some necessity
of yours. You will realize this necessity and find more appropriate means
to satisfy it.
If you recognize you
habit to get angry you will easily and naturally stop doing it, without
effort or suppression. When you understand and realize that you can use
information whenever you want to, because it is abundantly present around
us, then you will start getting the information you need whenever you want
it. It will simply emerge in your mind and sound, image, thought or feeling,
or in the worst case, you will find a book or person and they will provide
it.
When you recognize your
uniqueness, preciousness, talent, potential, then naturally in your life
will appear all the proofs to these facts. When you realize you are a phenomenon,
a genius, you will start to express yourself as such!
The "SILVA" method has
an advantage that it is suitable also for children, but yet DUONIKA is
only applicable to mature people, who can bear the responsibility for themselves
and for their awakening. The wakened man is beyond the power of the dreamy,
magic reality. He can no more suffer and fear the phantoms, because he
has mastered the skill to get in and out of the drama, the legend the enchanted
world.
DUONIKA applies as methods
the observation, understanding, cognizance, experiencing, creating. In
fact these are the stages of one and the same thing. The topic is about
the free will. Till we don’t awaken, we cannot talk about free will. We
are something like bio-robots in a semi-somnolent state and act as programmed
- if we are amused, we smile, if we are insulted we become sad, get angry
and suffer, if something is done to us we react in an exactly definite
way. No freedom of choice, no freedom of will. Do we have free will in
our dream? No! Well, the bad news is that in life we are in the same position.
But, the good news is that we can wake up. You are face in face with a
system that emerges in your nightmare with the proposal to take you out
of it. Do you want to wake up? Or maybe you are tired and want to sleep
some more time? Do you want to see the true reality where you are gods
or prefer the enchanted world of the irrational events, dramas, confrontations,
struggles, horrors, etc.? Do you want? Do you have at least a little free
will to require and make it?
DUONIKA is mastered
through conversations, logic, use of intellect, feelings, understanding,
cognition, experience, collaboration.
DUONIKA is a system
that can help you achieve one of the only two important abilities in this
world:
1. To derive the best for you from he situation
- what it may be at the moment of meeting with it - and to make the best
from the available, with regard to your goals.
2. To find or produce situations which serve
you best or to order such a reality, where you would feel best.
The masters of the first
type are the daoists and tantrists.
The masters of the second
type are the sorcerers.
The first endowment
helps you "swim" in the reality - what it may be - and enjoy your abilities.
The second endowment
helps you order the lake, where you would like to swim with pleasure.
Finally, both endowments
lead to one and the same - qualitative, pleasing and enjoyable living here
and now.
Some authors cal this
"entering the flow".
If you possess the first
of these two capacities, then what would embarrass you? Would it matter
what happens? Whatever the dynamic and changing life delivers you, you
will be able to do the best and everything will be welcomed for you, because
you are the alchemist, who will reproduce the reality. If you have mastered
the second capacity, again it does not matter what live presents you, because
you will immediately order what you like and it will come directly from
the Universal room-service.
Well, DUONIKA is a system
that shows you the way to these two capacities - the only two, you need
to feel good in this world.
1. THE GLOBAL CAUSE-EFFECT PRINCIPLE (GCEP) OR THE PRINCIPLE OF THE GREAT ELECTION
It says that everything
which happens is cause-effect related and predetermined - the way of the
planets around the stars, earthquakes, migration of great and small masses
of people around the world, births and deaths, the trajectories of the
falling autumn leaves and the forms of the cigarette smoke from a taken
by random cigarette. The all-existing always changes and transforms. Atoms,
molecules, plasma, rays, vibrations, light, elementary particles, information,
energies, matter and creative power constantly interact in definite ways
that are studied by the various sciences and give birth to new forms and
events. Everything happens such, what it actually is, because all the prerequisites
to happen exactly it are at hand. The creative power shapes from the available
- the possible and continues without end. The thread of the occurring events
spreads back and forth in time and space of the endless and eternal Universe.
But together with everything else, man also takes part in the game with
his dreams, intellect, wishes, will, actions. It is visible that in the
sum of all factors, which form the present and the future, there are ones
that are absolutely under our control. Hence, if we start to act in our
zone of influence, in "our own garden" by changing our way of thinking,
discard old and incorrect information schemes and habits, we will enhance
our partaking as a factor, which predetermines the future events. If we
constantly claim that someone else predestines our fortune, then we put
ourselves into dependence on powers and factors outside us. Then, there
is nothing else left for us than to fear and make ridiculous attempts to
propitiate these powers. To declare that everything is just absolute chaos
also does not make sense as we let ourselves on the flow of the blind powers
and again await, with lost hearts, for what is coming to happen. Therefore,
the only reasonable conclusion is that we can make something, which in
the power of the GCEL will bring to desired by us consequences.
Here is what we gain from the cognizance of this
principle:
· Better understanding of the past. What
has happened was the only possible to happen due to the available prerequisites.
The world has progressed following its own laws and through the interaction
of countless phenomena today has happened just this.
· Power over the future. If we want something
definite to happen, then we should set those prerequisites that will bring
to it.
· Understanding of the present. At this
stage we are exactly what we are and in our past stay all the prerequisites
to be so. We bear with us a heritage of information schemes that has predetermined
our reaction up to now.
· We can make this principle work exclusively
for us by using our mind, imagination and capacity to handle information
and thus turn our knowledge into a determinant, which will predestine absolutely
the future that would most appeal to us.
2. THE PRINCIPLE OF THE SILK THREAD (PST)
If we follow a spectacular
event in a reverse order, as for example the construction of the Eiffel
tower or flying into space, we shall come to that start point from where
everything commenced. It originated in the mind as an idea. After that
followed more and more ideas, concepts and pictures. Then came the question:
"How actually I can make all that?" and the whole way was followed in the
mind. The direction got clear and man made the first step. And thus he
proceeded every day until the achievement of the goal.
In our mind we can make
into pieces every huge building of some our dream to that small bricks,
which we can move and arrange just today. If this also proves difficult,
then we could make the things even smaller, so small that we can manage
with them at this moment. After that, every day, with patience and constancy
we shall perform one more small action and after that one more, till finally
we achieve what we want. In this way begins the "pulling" of the Silver
Thread.
In other words LST means: The
Principle of the Patient Sequence of Proper Actions. All these four components
- patience, sequence, proper and activity are interrelated and has to be present
during all our way to the goal.
In our mind stays the
end of that Silver Thread, which may help "pull" towards us the health,
joy, happiness and wealth!
3. THE PRINCIPLE OF THE UNDERSTANDING (PU)
Practicing understanding
is one of the main techniques, which helps us to succeed. Through it we
comprehend everything that happens around us. Everything has its cause
and logic and may be explained and understood. To practice understanding
means easily, without emotional qualifications and judging, to find and
follow the reasons for a particular event or human behaviour.
The world is just what
it is and has all the prerequisites to be like this, because if it could
be different, then it would be. Everything happens in the only possible
way and its realization is the best proof for that. The people are part
of this world and are also just what they are and cannot be something else
at the moment of our meeting, no matter how we don’t like it. The principle of
Understanding helps us apprehend why a particular person behaves
in the way he does. When we learn to detect what is hidden behind his behaviour,
then we would very easily find the most appropriate, for that particular
case, actions and words for that person.
Understanding is an
active and intelligent way to protect ourselves and best solve our problems.
It helps us control our temper, shrewdly and realistically assess the situation
(the person in front of us) and behave in the most winning way.
Understanding is closest
to humans’ reasoning capacity and is simple to master. For that reason,
before we start loving our fellowman, let’s first just try to understand
him. And much better is to start with understanding and acceptance of ourselves.
What do we gain from the LU?
We keep our energy, health and emotional balance.
Recognize yet better the mechanisms determining
human behaviour and according to which things happen.
Experience pleasure in the process of understanding,
a feeling known to everyone, who has fulfilled his thirst for knowledge.
Develop our imagination, fantasy and creative
thinking.
Start to accept people’s behaviour and what they
say as signals for their emotional state and not as bad attitude towards
us.
Broaden our conscience and from bio-robots we
are transformed into more and more consciously acting humans.
We are capable to find quickly the collaboration
zones with the person in front of us or with the world at the particular
moment.
We turn into clear-sighted and wise people and
psychotherapists for our relatives and friends.
We open the path to love.
4. THE PRINCIPLE OF THE INFORMATION SUFFICIENCY (PIS)
Information is one of
the four Universe essences and exactly it is for us the key to matter,
energy and creative power. We, the people, are by now the only creatures
who can proficiently manage information. The main characteristic of our
thinking is that when knowledge reaches a particular level in our conscience,
it turns into an additional factor, and very often into determinant. Thanks
to this we can reduce to null the negative impact on us of a certain event
or to make it work in our favour.
LIS says that every
sufficient information on a given problem may be used by the thinking person
to solve that problem or as additional factor to produce future events
in the course of his objectives and wishes.
With the help of the
LIS we can surpass the restrictions that existed for us in the time, when
we were in a state of ignorance.
Barbara De Angelis in
her book "Are you the one for me" definitely states that when man is conscious
for the myths about love or for his psychic traumas from the childhood,
he can manage the consequences in his present relations with people and
improve a lot the quality of his communications. This is possible due to
the LIS. That principle can transform every person from an irresponsible and
instinctively acting marionette into a responsible creator of one’s own
future by increasing the action of the additional factor - his knowing
mind. Or in other words, "The fools is no more a fool when he realizes
that".
The moment we realize
our powers and abilities they multiply.This is again a result of the LIS.
It helps overcome all the restrictions that were set upon us by the genetic
heritage, family and social environment, ignorance and prejudices.
As a consequence from
the LIS comes our ability to elicit principles and regularities from the
manifestations of the world around us to the time, when we reach that information
sufficiency, beyond which we can change the things as we like to.
5. THE PRINCIPLE OF THE POSITIVE THINKING (PPT)
Almost everyone in his life had time, when good
events exceeded his expectations. Let us then ask ourselves: Why were our
preliminary beliefs so humble? Why didn’t we dare to await the best and
life pleasantly surprised us? In that case life was merciful and generous,
but the question is why we were not generous for ourselves. Why very often
absolutely merciless we imagine horrors that we await to happen in the
future? Or in the best case de do not dare to imagine how many pleasant
things await us.
Here we again find the
presence of the inferiority complex. It is difficult for a person, who
has no confidence in himself, who has been systematically violated with
the assertions that he is imperfect and does not deserve happiness, love,
money, to display positive thinking! The basis, the deep internal persuasion
is contrary to the course of the positive thinking and expectation. Believing
he is a lame duck, a wretch, a general fellow he would expect events that
confirm just this idea. Consequently, first we should realize the surreptitiously
acting inferiority complex and after that to acknowledge it is an artificial
formation in our mind, and then start to think in the following way: "I
want my life to be nice and prosperous, because I deserve it by virtue,
because I am valuable by myself, I was born thinking and acting person,
who has beautiful dreams and performs creative acts. I shall do everything
necessary to accomplish my dreams as I am certain this will happen in the
best possible way!"
Thus, the first task
is to clearly understand that we are valuable creatures, unique, exclusive
and deserving welfare, well-being and wealth! The LPT will help us see
accomplished that, what we want to happen with us and in our life, and
to know that exactly it will come. This is the only way to achieve anything.
Expect only pleasant
and interesting things from the contacts with people and your life as a
whole!
Imagine you have cleaned
yourselves from all fears and embarrassments. This means you have thrown
out all "Trojan horses" from your soul. You have been transformed into
a golden sphere that sends its overwhelming effulgence to every side. Everyone,
who approaches you will automatically get the missing love and become balanced
and harmonious like you.
The ability to radiate
in all directions is only yours and does not depend on anyone else! So,
if you want to do something refined for this world, first change yourself.
The positive thinking is a step towards this and mastering it is possible
through everyday work in "you own garden".
6. THE PRINCIPLE OF THE DOUBLE GAIN (PDG)
When there is no conformity
between "want" and "have to" we tend to show will in order to overcome
our reluctance at the moment and perform what is necessary. If we support
the concept that wife is a struggle, then we shall conduct exactly in that
way. But, there is another one - more pleasant and mild. If we can stimulate
ourselves to do something, then the courses of "want" and "have to" go
together and the necessity to apply will vanishes. Disappears also the
extreme effort. Things happen easily and pleasingly. Self-stimulation is
an intellectual process and depends only on us. The LDG helps us make an
effective and practical step to mastering the self-stimulation. When we
understand that we can attain at least double gain out of everything we
deal with, then we automatically become more motivated and it won’t be
necessary to use will or extreme efforts to force ourselves do it. With
much more engagement we shall obtain new knowledge or problem solutions,
when we are convinced that such activity will bring us at leas double gain.
In fact the profits
are three:
1. By a particular occupation we satisfy some
of our needs
2. The new knowledge or skill that we get turns
into an "exchange unit" and for it we shall receive favour, money, fellow
feeling or other information in the future relationship with someone else.
3. The cognizance of this principle improves our self-stimulation
and thus the study and creation processes are ameliorated and become more
pleasant.
If we now apply this
principle to everything we know and can at the moment, and also to what we shall
study, then immediately we shall feel its charm and miraculous power.
Whether studying a foreign
language, physical exercises or any other form of perfection and healthy
way of life will be punishment of delight depends only on us, on our ability
to stimulate ourselves.
7. THE PRINCIPLE OF THE DISCOMFORT (PD)
It happens to loose or
be deprived of things we need a lot, to be hit or hurt ourselves, to suffer,
be unsatisfied, frightened, furious. In short, I summon all those as "falling
into discomfort" at it is a result of our continuous interactions with
the surrounding world. And it, the world, has no ears to hear our complaints,
nor heart to get touched, but is ruled by its cause-effect chains, which
make him now , at the moment of our meeting, be exactly what it is.
We, the people, possess
highly developed and with unique capacities brain and intellect and just
they help us become the changing value. As rational beings we should assess
the situation and react in the appropriate way, so that our interaction
with the world to produce as a result satisfaction and comfort, and not
anguish and suffering.
We may fall into discomfort
due to various reasons, but if we are wise, we shall derive the precious
information - for ourselves or for the peculiarities of the surrounding
world.
There are five basic
reason for being into discomfort:
1. Inferiority complex - we exaggerate the problem
or the person we deal with, underestimate ourselves, delude ourselves that
powers beyond us hinder and orderly suppress us.
2. Insolence - we underestimate the problem or
the person we deal with, overestimate ourselves, behave from the position
of strength, show impatience, etc.
3. Greediness - we strive for more than is sufficient
for us.
4. Ignorance - have some delusions and prejudices
in our minds and they prevent us from seeing the rescuing information or
we lack knowledge on how to use the existing information.
5. Inadequate wishes - we have associated our
deeds and way of life with unhealthy and inappropriate for us wishes, possibly
under some foreign influence.
The Principle of Discomfort teaches us that we can change
the world and make it a better place for living only when we start from ourselves
by cleaning "our own garden". If we want do reduce the number of the hapless,
ill and poor people, let us first become happy, healthy and prosperous. After
that we can help others achieve the same. Hence, when in discomfort, we work
inwards with a discoverer’s spirit, without sense of guilt. We are willing to
understand the reasons inside us and clean our souls. And when we are in comfort,
then we act outwards with a spirit of collaboration, creative audacity and love.
8. THE PRINCIPLE OF THE CREATIVE THINKING AND ACTION (PCTA)
This is the basic principle
of the system.
Man has many wishes,
dreams and goals to achieve and at the same time has to survive, because
he is not all-powered - sometimes catches a cold, sprains an ankle, gets
ulcer and even dies, but the most important - feels pain and suffers. Nevertheless,
man is a tenacious creature! True, he is sensible, but just because of
that he has intellect, i.e. ability to manage the information and comprehend
the essence of the objects and events and hence turn into factor, which
changes the reality.
At the basis of the
WSL lays the assumption that this world is being fashioned by a creative
power, which in man is expressed through collaboration, creativity and
love. DUONIKA is well grounded in the truth that the most successful path
for man passes through collaboration and not struggle and confrontation.
The best results may be obtained only from the collaboration with ourselves,
with the people, nature and Universe.
The LCTA includes the
search, find, establishment and stay in the collaboration zones with everything
that surrounds us. Particularly, in the relations with the people the LCTA
directs our behaviour to total one-level collaboration.
In the interrelations
people come into the following groups of relationships:
1. Manipulation, exploitation, ruling, support
of hierarchy
2. Underestimation and positioning in the place
of a victim
3. One-level collaboration
Most often people incline
towards the first two areas and loose or fabricate drama. The key to get
permanently and forever in the zone of one-level collaboration is love
for oneself, realization of one’s own uniqueness and dignity for oneself,
not in comparison with anyone. The criteria that this has been achieved
is the emerging ability to comprehend more and more clearly the uniqueness
of the other, without getting nervous or frightened. This is the only way
to set the basis for a winning life. It is built through:
1. Understanding
2. Getting rid of the delusions
3. Mercy
4. Love
Thus we easily and naturally
reach the state of one-level collaboration. In theis foundation cracks,
the layers transpose and we fall either in a state of victim or manipulator.
Insolence drives us
to manipulation and the inferiority complex - to transformation into victims.
We, the people, differ
by the information we have in our brains. We differ in the matter we are
built of. Some have more melanin, others more calcium, etc. Everyone produces
and maintains different energy flows and fluctuations, different in colour
nuance and size auras. The only thing that links us together and with the
surrounding world is the Creative power. Therefore, all of us if not brothers
and sisters are at least cousins by creative power. It is our eternal kindred
relationship!
When we comprehend and
realize this fact, then from created we may become creators of our own
life and fortune. While we haven’t assimilated and realized that we shall
be destroyers. The LCTA provides the possibility for the first choice.
Now we are living in
an made-up story, in a dramatic reality, in a bewitching legend! What is
typical for it? The happenings and the relations between people are paradoxical,
contradicting and weird. Piles of illogical and even ridiculous things
and events exist, but we accept them humbly, because they perfectly match
into the context of the legend. This is what our life now look s like -
a bad dream, a dream of reason! The awakening is possible for everyone
separately and it happens when one realizes the situation in which he is.
With the aid of the winning stratema of living we first recognize the delusions
we are slaves to, and that nurture the legend. It has to be taken into
consideration that we are so accustomed with it, that it has so deeply
penetrated our brains, so it is very possible the process of cognizance
to be somewhat painful, just like eyes ache when coming into contact with
light after a long stay in the darkness of a cave.
In it happiness is something,
which someone is bringing, life is fair and destiny is product of weird
sisters or planets. Good and Evil exist, there is everlasting fight and
tragedy, there is Cinderella, there are elects of fate, etc. The legend
is full of fables. From our earliest years we are taught that Santa
Claus gives presents to the good kids, that happiness comes from somewhere
in our life. The idea for fast profits, for magic wands is also an element
of the legend. The idea that things may happen very fast makes us postpone
to work over ourselves. We lack patience as well as the knowledge that
hard work and patience are two different things.
I suppose, you remember
a dream in which everything was absurd, but during the dreaming you did
not get surprised. There, in the dream reality, we do not remember that
another reality also exists and we shall go straight into it the moment
the dream ends. Now, when we are awake and we remember our dream, we are
in a larger reality, but this does not mean that we are in the last size
reality. Now we do not remember that beyond, another, much more comprehensive
reality exists and just like in the dream we accept the paradoxes, absurd
and grotesque happening to us as something that is understood from itself.
It is so, because we continue dreaming. Another awakening is required.
Some time ago I thought
that hapless people were not very clever. But it proved to be not quite
right. Can we declare a robot to be stupid or clever? The robot performs
only what is programmed in it. Well, for now we are biorobots! And this
will continue till we happen to realize the delusions or wrong information
models settled in our brains. Till then we will be living in a legend -
a false copy of the reality.
For a very long time
we were travelers - in the womb of our mother, in the pram, and after that,
when our parents continued to determine what to do and what not, what to
study, how to behave, etc. While we were growing up in our brains settled
all kinds of spin yarn, preposterous assertions and we just accepted them
without faultfinding as we didn’t have criteria for comparison.
"The world is a unity and struggle of opposites"
"Different things oppose to each other"
"Everything is achieved only through hard work
and will"
"It is too good to be true"
"Truth is born in the dispute"
"Anger and fear are useful and necessary"
"Authority instead of truth"
"Matters are either good or bad"
"Man is born bad"
"Incorrect means sinful"
"The way of life determines the consciousness"
"People are hapless because they are poor and
ill"
"We are what we possess or do"
"The more you know, more hapless you become"
"Solitude is something bad"
"We are born to suffer"
"Education means intelligence"
"Prodigies are some rare exceptions"
"Quantity is more important than quality"
"Spiritual opposes material"
"Naked human body is shameful"
Egoism is something bad"
"Happiness has to be deserved"
"Money, profit and success interfere spiritual
development"
"The true way is only for elects, saints or hermits"
"The ideal partner should know and take care
for all our needs and wishes in life"
"When sex between two persons is fascinating
like a magic, then for sure there is love between them"
"Work is not pleasure"
"The re is only one best way"
"More discipline means less freedom"
"We work best when we are under pressure"
And a lot of more delusions,
dogmas and prejudices rule our brains.
Gradually, as time pass,
out of these and similar information models the dramatic reality has formed,
the legend we live in today. When we were born and grow we pass through
the following three phases of development:
1. Dependence
2. Independence
3. Interdependence
Many people halt
in
the first two phases and their journey stops. But we are voyagers and not
passengers! When somebody else makes choices for us we are passengers,
when we ourselves choose, then we are voyagers. Voyagers in the multi-reality!
The third phase - of
interdependence, is achieved through cognizance and purposeful transformation.
Then man is capable of getting out of the reality-drama and enter into
the reality-happy life. And now, you already can choose - be travelers
or voyagers. You have the guide in your hands - THE WINNING STRATEMA OF
LIVING (WSL).
Someone has a health
problem. He very well understands that if he makes nothing and at the same
time people happen to know about his problem, then he will be incriminated
to be a stupid martyr. What should he do? Well, very simple - should undertake
some actions, as if directed to his healing, but in fact prepare a collection
with the heading "This didn’t help too!". After filling the collection
with some tenths of names of doctors, witch doctors and healing systems
that did not help him, then, he can relax and, undisturbed by anyone, practice
his occupation of a martyr. Now, anyone who tries to advise him how to
solve his problem will be parried, confuted and overthrown by the "tenths
unsuccessful healing attempts" in the collection. To put it in other words,
the alibi is already fabricated. Why do I say alibi and not just excuse?
The word alibi is used in legal practice and is in direct relation with
the word crime. People devise alibis when they want to conceal the intention
or their share in a crime. In this particular case the crime is assassination
of the own body in an extremely cruel and agonizing way. Everyone who leads
an unhealthy life, who harms his body with tobacco, alcohol, drugs, overwork,
insufficient sleep, traumas, inappropriate food, in fact commits a crime
to his own body and life. Those, who recognize this, in order to conceal
their own complicity, produce an "iron alibi" namely with the collection
"This didn’t help too!". Others build a complete "philosophic conception"
with the following more important assertions "The way of life determines
the consciousness", "The economy of the country is wretched", "Bad people
hinder me and put spell on me", "I have to pay for bad karma", "Anguish
ennobles", etc., many such pint-size dippers with water from far away for
the water-mill that monotonously and deceivingly repeats: "I can’t do anything!
The causes are outside of me!".
Maybe you already ask
yourself why, when man could live well, be healthy, happy and prosperous,
he does not just do it then? Is he that stupid? No, the question here is
not exactly about mental ability, but for ignorance and inferiority complex.
This is the reason why one does not realize what fantastic powers and creative
abilities he possesses.
The inferiority complex
is produced and nurtured by four main sources:
1. The recollection, accumulated with ages in
the generic storage, for susceptibility and vulnerability. For a long time
man depended on the outer environment, which scared him, unpleasantly surprised
and extinguished him and his creations.
2. The strong and vivid recollection for being
helpless in our childhood. When we were babies and small kids other people
swaddled, fed, bathed us, changed clothes, ordered what to touch and what
not, etc.
3. The incompetent parents and teachers, who
alleged through our sense of guilt, the impression that we are imperfect,
sinful and bad creatures.
4. The instance of death coming to people around
us and its incorrect interpretation always suggests that we are susceptible
and transitory creatures.
And so, we inherit a
powerful inferiority complex. All our further deeds are directed to escape
or fight with this tedious complex, but most often in the wrong way - to
insolence, greediness, fear and disbelief that pleasant things and affluence
rightfully belong to us. This complex stays at the basis of our destructive
actions. It causes hatred, opposition, rivalry, impatience and haste, intolerance,
lust after power and is the reason that urged man to build hierarchy. The
inferiority complex is the urge that we always find someone to admire,
to worship and adore, but also someone to condemn and place below us in
the hierarchy. This complex can make a tragedy out of anything. Whatever
system for happy and prosperous life we learn, we just prepare our future
misfortune, if we do not first eradicate the inferiority complex.
Some of the reasons to accept ourselves with
love and respect are the following:
· The fact that we are unique, exclusive
creatures with this self-feeling, at this moment, on this Earth, in this
Universe. Everyone of us has his way, his fortune and uniqueness and there
is absolutely no necessity to compare with anyone!
· The fact that we do exist, we were born,
just we! This was the best that could have happened and exactly it happened.
· The fact that a creative power, which
styles this world, has expressed itself through us!
When we qualify our
significance in comparison with others we become insolent. When we are
like that, we tend to condemn, to convict, to manipulate, to accuse. When
we sway to the inferiority complex we start to accuse ourselves, allow
being forced, manipulated and exploited. Thus we engage into a false and
cruel hierarchy, where those above tread on us and we tread on the people
below us. When we do not lean to the inferiority complex or to insolence,
then we are balanced and show understanding for our significance and uniqueness
only for ourselves, without comparing to anyone else. Then we accept all
people as different, but equal to us. When matters are positioned at one
level they spread horizontally. Then we move smoothly, easily and with
pleasure. When in the hierarchy we climb vertically at all means, filled
with fear and strain not to slip down. When we realize our uniqueness and
reach a normal level of self-acceptance, then we start to look on people
with curiosity and interest, search for and find their uniqueness, talents
and fortes in order to combine them with ours and thus create something
else, something more beautiful. We act together, being at one level, hand
in hand.
I follow a reasonable
and logic approach - I try to stay very close to the facts, analyze them
with free from delusions conscience and to recede from them only through
logic issues and conclusions. Precise and clear natural laws exist and
knowing them brings happiness and success. Disregarding them causes pain
and suffering.
For that reason:
· true and correct is everything that
creates, supports and preserves of life.
· Good is that, what makes us healthy
and wise
· Good is that, what elaborates our talents.
· Good is tranquillity and happiness
· Good is creativeness, invention and
love
· We act correctly when we look in ourselves
with understanding, mercy and love, when we support and worship life, when
we seek means to be competent in our work, to be prosperous, to enrich
our knowledge, to be happy, realize our dreams and cooperate with the other
people.
We act rightly when
we first start to clean "our own garden".
Consequently, all those
actions or inactions that support life, health, harmony, beauty, joy, pleasure,
delight, love, happiness, that lead to knowledge, perfection, tranquillity
and enlightenment are the correct actions or inactions.
As a criterion I use
the reality itself. If what I assert may be applied into practice, if things
happen as I have postulated, if the law I have found exists and following
it leads to success and desired results, then I am correct in my actions.
If this approach helps
me understand what happens, keep my good mood, comprehend matters in life
more and more broadly, feel content, pleasure, love and happiness, then
this is the real right approach.
If man has perceived
genuine laws and has managed to employ them, then the result would be -
solving his problems. I have studied life and perceived that wherever one
approaches with a spirit of collaboration, the results are inevitably better.
I have analyzed many excellent powerful systems as Aikido, T’ai Chi Ch’uan,
Ajurveda, read books on successful conduct of negotiations, went behind
the application of these principles for life support and everywhere I faced that
creative power. I wondered where my eyes were to see it earlier. And one
day I realized that the reason is not in the eyes, but in the mind. It
has been blocked for a long time and wrongly directed by the assertion
that world is a struggle of opposites. This was fed in our brains through
the mechanisms of the mass culture in a period of our life, when we neither
had captious thinking, nor basis for comparison and criteria for truthfulness.
Delusions of this kind sink in our brains and after that through the so
formed distorted vision we observe the reality. It is not at all by accident
that people today are ill separated, uncertain, frightened, loathing, greedy,
fighting among themselves, bewildered, living in somnolence, maltreating
their bodies and souls, committing suicide, blind for beauty, jealous,
incapable (with some small exceptions) to experience creative joy, love
and happiness.
And so, I lean upon
several evident truths, freed from prejudices and false dogmas. I arrange
them in a refined and pleasant system and apply them practically in my
life. There is real effect and I call this Winning Stratema of Living.
Everyone can very easily
check the power and truthfulness of the WSL. It is only sufficient to imagine
he has mastered it and ask himself the following two questions:
- If the world is filled up with people like
me, would it become a better or a worse place to live?
- If all people begin to apply the principles
of the WSL, better or a worse would their relations with the others and
their whole life become?
Now answer yourself
those two questions and you will immediately understand whether this system
is real and good, whether it is fit for you or not.
DUONIKA - The Winning
Stratema of Living is:
· logically organized
· based on real facts and events
· showing the wrong information, which
blocks us and limit our horizon
· giving practical answers to basic philosophical,
psychological and human questions.
· supplying information for the main natural
and Universal laws, the accepting of which makes man more understanding,
prospering and happy
· providing the understanding and comprehension
of this information through realization of the cause-effect relations
· practically and immediately applicable
· internally logically arranged, without
contradictions
· facilitating the easy and pleasant entering
into the flow of the creative power
Our great lord is the
life itself! It is our real guru! And life is fashioned by an invisible
Creative power and only with an awoken spirit of collaboration contact
may be established with it! Great is the Creative power and DUONIKA is
its herald.
"Every thing is right if it gives sense and power to your life. Every word, which gives the slightest light to your brain, every emotion, which supplies your heart with warmth, is right. Every act, which give the slightest power to your body, is right. Because thousands of words, feelings and acts will come and pass." Peter Dynov
Let us first answer the following questions and
we shall immediately know that:
- Is there discontent in our life and to what
degree?
- Is there satisfaction and content and how much?
- Which predominates - suffering or joy, pain
or pleasure?
- What do we think about life as a whole - do
we like it, do we want it or not?
- Are we capable to solve our problems and how
actually we do it?
- Can we work out with people for mutual joy
and benefit?
- Do we achieve our goals and dreams?
- A what price?
- How good is our health?
When we answer in written to these questions,
we can approximately assess what is the quality of our living at about
the present moment. After that we can estimate what we know and what we
do not know about the art of living. Thus, we can make a plan and begin
to fill the gaps - in theory and practice. Luckily, the work for the last
stage is already finished. You have a complete system for increasing the
quality of living - DUONIKA.
When two persons have
formed a partner pair, its good quality is assessed by the following features:
- many inter- satisfactory collaboration zones
exist.
- problems are divided, not multiplied
- no one is carrying the other on his back
- everyone is ready to complete the work in "his
own garden" and the surpluses of energy and love he shares with his partner
in order to create something new
- partnership exists, cooperation , understanding,
but not arguments, struggle, outfoxing, etc.
- both persons realize the fact they are different,
but equally valuable and equitable individualities.
What are the criteria according to which we should
make a change in and with ourselves:
- if the change is useful for us
- if it transforms us into creative, loving and
constructive people
- if it is in conformity with accepted and tested
by us winning principles.
Cognizance comprises the following
components - intellectual understanding, agreement with the logic and explanation,
perception, visualization, absolute and deep comprehension of the presented
information, knowing it, feeling its truthfulness with one’s whole being.
When the information sinks without restriction into the sub-conscience,
into the body cells, it becomes realized and experienced. Now it is not
only in the memory, but has involved all our being and begins to transform
it.
Figure conscience as
a beacon and the sub-conscience as vast dark sea below it. When the beacon
emits light, the sea starts to saturate with it. When we keep for a certain
period a truth, think over it, try to imagine it, taste it, smell it, feel
and hear it, when we perceive it with our reason and contemplate it with
our feelings, then the information saturates our whole being and starts
modeling it and determining its presentations.
DUONIKA improves the
quality of thinking and the quality of feeling. This means we work with
the two hemispheres of the brain and extensively use them. Reason and feelings
are in a constructive combination. We shall learn to apply the principle
of collaboration also in the interactions between the two hemispheres.
We shall accomplish this with intelligence, wisdom, understanding, awareness
and love. There will be no confrontation, internal contradictions and splits.
We shall progress towards integrity and unity.